I am sharing only five such things you should avoid. Unknowingly, friends, we do many such things which are not good for our personal development. Although the list of these things can be very long,.
5 Things you should avoid:
Maybe you have already practiced some of these things, but if you can do some add-ons from here, then definitely it will improve your life. So, compared see those 5 things you should avoid:
1) To enjoy other’s evil
We have been hearing from childhood that the third person should not do evil in front of each other, but one more thing which I feel is important is that if someone is doing evil of someone else then we should not take interest in him and he should not enjoy If you show interest in it, then you also attract negativity towards you. It would be better if you stay away from such people, but if you feel compelled to stay together, then you become deaf and dumb on such topics, the person himself will calm down.
For example if someone is making fun of someone and you do not laugh at him, then maybe he will not do this in front of you next time. Also understand that generally those who make fun of others in front of you will also make fun of you in front of others. Therefore it is only right to discourage such people. Its compulsory things you should avoid.
2) Compare your inner to the outside
Call it a human defect or something else, but the truth is that the cause of a lot of sorrows is not our own grief, but the happiness of the other. You try to rise above this, so remember that only the person’s reality is known to us, we see the external form of people, that is fake, and compare it to the person’s inner being. That is why we feel that the person in front is happier than us, but the reality is that such comparison has no meaning. You just have to keep improving yourself and don’t compare in vain .Its a second things you should avoid .
3) Depend on others for some work
I have seen many times that people are unable to complete their important work simply because they depend on someone else. Do not depend on any particular person. Your goal; The task should be completed within the time limit, now if your best friend is not able to help you immediately, then you can take help of someone else, or if possible you can do that work alone.
By doing this, your confidence will increase, such people who are self-sufficient in doing small tasks, go ahead and overcome big challenges, then bring this thing in your habit: it is important that the work is completed Not that it can be completed only with the help of a particular person. Its also a very impostant things you should avoid.
4) To regret what has passed
If something has happened to you in the past that makes you sad, then regret it once… do it twice…. But do not do it a third time. Take what you can learn from that incident and look forward. Instead of showing sympathy with people who cry their cry again and again in front of others, people start getting cut off from it.
Everyone has their own problems and no one likes people who make life sad rather than happy. And if you do this, then you lose more than anyone else. You are stuck in the past, and neither live this moment nor prepare yourself for the future. Its one of the most important things you should avoid.
5) Focusing on what you don’t want
The thing that we focus on in the entire universe grows amazingly. So focus on what you want to happen, talk about it and not the things that you don’t want.
For example: If you want to increase your income, then do not talk about rising inflation and expenses at all times, but talk about new opportunities and income generating ideas.
This things you should avoid has been explained in detail in this post: Think what you want, not what you don’t want! Please read it.
Friends, I hope that by paying attention to these small things, you will be able to grow faster on the path of self improvement and make your life happier.